Sexuality

As I become more comfortable with who I am, I can't help but wonder about other people.  I know there are many of us that feel we were born in the wrong body, but how does that affect their sexuality?  For example, I feel I was born in the wrong body.  I should have been female.  I desire to be female.  But I do not really consider myself gay per say.  I am attracted to some woman as I am attracted to men.  The attraction to men is stronger than my attraction to women, but I consider myself BI.  My first thoughts when I see a woman naked is not attraction or a sexual desire, it is wow, why can't I be a woman and have a body like that.  When I look a women, I admire their clothes before their body.  When I look at a man naked, my first thoughts are I wonder what it would be like to go down on him.  Do the ways I think about men and women make me more gay than bi?  Don't get me wrong, I do occasionally get aroused by women, but it's not in my mind the typical arousal, if there is such a thing.  If I fantasize about a woman, I am usually also a woman in the fantasies.  I feel that if I were a woman, I would most likely be truly bi.  When I watch any porn, I get more aroused by the man than the woman.  But I do look at a vast array of nude pictures of woman, but it is more to fantasize about being them then to want to have sex with them.  Last time my wife and I had sex it took a bit to get me hard.  I'm almost sure that if I was to be in a room with any other woman naked, I would have a hard time getting aroused also.  Part of my evidence is when a friend answered all my questions about women, a typical guy would probably get aroused hearing about her going commando or how it feels to have sex as a woman.  For me, nothing.  Another case is when she came over for me to take a picture of her bare back.  I'm sure any normal guy would get aroused of just the thought they may see more because she is a beautiful woman, but again for me nothing.  I really think the more and more I get comfortable with myself wanting to be a woman, the more and more I don't get aroused by women.

So now that I've explained me, onto the questions.

1.  Would I be considered more heterosexual with bi tendencies since my mindset is female?
2.  Would I be considered more homosexual with bi tendencies since my body is male?
3.  How do other people like me perceive their sexuality?
4.  Are woman more inclined to have bi experiences than men?

The closest I have come to being with a guy is making out with a few men and a glancing touch of one man's penis.  My wife has had sex with another woman before.  Since then I have wondered what it feels like for woman to be with another woman.  I know with kissing other men that their lips were definitely not as soft as a woman's.  Do women please other women since they are more familiar with the female body?  If I were to have a sexual experience with another man would it be more pleasurable since I am more familiar with the male body?  I guess I won't know unless I try.  The only issue is I don't know any bi or gay men.  And I'm not sure if I would be able to get the nerve.  I always thought the best way for me to be able to be with a man was when I was rolling.  But now that time has passed and I may just go through life never knowing.  Also for me, I would much rather have known the person for a while then to start a new relationship.  Secretly I had always hoped I would be with one of my best friend's from High School that way.  There were times that I thought I saw possible opportunities, but never acted as I didn't want to misinterpret and ruin our friendship.  One instance that stands out was a Halloween a few years ago.  He brought his daughter by for Trick or Treat and after his daughter got in the car we stood and talked for a few minutes.  He mentioned a few times to me that he had been tested and was clean of any STD's and was good to go to have sex.  This is the first time he had ever said it to me in that manner.  I know he's been tested before, but just the way he said it, made me think he wanted to have sex with me.  Maybe it was just my mind giving me hope.  I don't know.  I used to sleep over his house many times in High School in the same bed as him, but we never did anything.  If there is anything I regret is not making a move the last time we rolled together.  Oh well.

Oh another event.  Maybe it was just again my mind giving me hope, but he was the first one I told about my desires to be a woman.  He was all fine with it.  Then when I got a new mattress, he took the old one.  I helped him move it into his apartment and I mentioned I was going to miss that mattress.  He told me if I ever miss it, I was more than welcome to sleep over on it with him.  Hmmm.... maybe someday I can say I miss it and sleep over and find out.