Mind Over Body??

Is it possible to have Mind over Body?  Where if you want something so bad and wish for changes to occur, that over time your body will begin to adapt to your desires.  Since I was thirteen I have been wishing I was female and that some magical power could change me.  Since that time, I've developed a more curvy body.  As I have gotten older, before I gained weight, I had been told that I have had a very feminine shaped body.  I have noticed that my breasts have gotten bigger, not by much, but enough to be noticeable if you are looking.  I have also noticed a shrinkage in my penis when it is in the rest position.  Since I have been with my wife, I have developed sympathy cramps when she has had her period.  Since a friend and I have become closer as friends, I have started to become more emotional during her and my wife's periods.  But the emotional roller coaster as I call it has continued past their cycles.  I have become for sensitive.  I feel that my estrogen levels are higher than ever.  Now something new has developed.  My nipples have gotten super sensitive.  As of today, they started oozing a white milky substance.  If I were to guess it would be slight lactating.  I noticed wet spots on my shirt where my nipple is.  Only where my nipple is.  Is this sympathy lactating for a friend who just had a baby?  What is going on with me?  I swear sometimes I think I'm going to wake up and reach down for my penis to find it has been replaced with a vagina.  No complaints.  I welcome that day.  It's just weird.  I never really believed in Mind over Matter or Mind over Body.  But I'm really starting to believe it.  Maybe I am getting my wish and changing.  It's just changing me slowly.   Maybe....